TESOL W06 Differences in Emotional Expressivity
13 February 2019
While watching and listening to the video with Bro
Ivers a thought came to mind. Differences in Emotional Expressivity has changed
for me over the years. About 31 years ago I would do relief for the bank in a
tiny branch. Over month end there would only be 2 of us. The rest of the month
there would only be the teller who worked at the bank on a full-time basis. The
reason I mention the timeline is because
of the change that has taken place. While working with Liz, she would always
refer to the client in front of her as “Ma.” To me,
this meant mother in Afrikaans but to her,
it was a sign of respect for her African clients. I was disgusted with what she
was doing. Funny thing, today I refer to them as “Ma” whether it is male or
female. Since having guests here from Hawaii, I have tried to greet in their
language and say, “Thank You.” What has changed over the last 31 years? Me. I
have matured and realized that I need to adapt to their culture as well. I certainly
do not speak like Len and Jay. When they are talking about someone or are unhappy,
I can figure out what is being said.
If you give an African something, they will cup their
hand and put their other hand under the elbow of the cupped hand. This is how
they show their thanks. They also give a slight bow. Could not find a picture
to show you.
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